18. August 2011 07:02 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Coastal drive to Trogir - Croatia 18. August 2011 07:02 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetcoastal drive to trogir croatiaShareThe coastal drive from Dubrovnik back up to Trogir just north of Split is absolutely amazing. It follows the coastline closely all the way and it is both a fun drive and incredibly scenic. I found it better than the Great Ocean Road here in Australia. One minute the road is really close to the water and you can see all these little bays with crystal clear water and sometimes with small beaches and people swimming. Next minute the road is up high and you get an incredible view of all the high mountains and islands off the coast. The whole route is dotted with small towns and beautiful little churches. The road is really winding and does not have too much traffic on it, so it is a very pleasant and never boring. To complete the drive we also had to cross back into to Bosnia only to cross the border back into Croatia a few kilometers later. Unfortunately both Kim and Aiden missed out on much of the scenery as they were sleeping most of the way. Along the way we stopped in Markarska to get a bite to eat. It is an incredible little natural harbour with a steep backdrop to the mountains behind. We stopped for the night in a small island town called Trogir. It is a charming little town with narrow passageways and very nice little restaurants. It is very popular with the rich in their 150 foot motor boats. Kim had found a hotel right in the centre of the old town so we had to park outside the city and then walk in. We were only staying for one night, so it was easy for us to just pack one bag and leave the rest of our things in the boot of the car. Arriving to the hotel we found that the Aircon and TV wasn't working...we complained to the reception desk and they came to have a look at it. It turned out to have been turned off at the fuse box. We turned on the Aircon and it was quite noisy but at least it was somewhat working. Kim went to have a shower and suddenly I heard a very loud vacumm cleaner type sound and then Kim started screaming. I went out to the bathroom and there was water and soap everywhere...the walls, the doors (even the outside of the door) and the floor. The Jacuzzi in the bathroom had suddenly automatically turned itself on in the middle of her shower and the off switch wasn't working. The only way we could turn it off was on the fuse box...so now we knew why it was off when we arrived. This turned out to be probably the worst of the hotels (Hotel Fontana) that we stayed in...it was really unbearable hot in the room, we couldn't open the window because we would be attacked my moscitoes, and if we wanted to turn on the noisy aircondition then the jacuzzi would automatically start every 10 minutes and disrupt our sleep. And the included breakfast was also not worth writing home about. But besides from that Trogir was very nice. We spent a fair bit of time getting lost in the small alleys. Kim would ask if I had any idea where we were or where we were going...and I'd say "No, we are definitely lost" (Trogir is a very small island so you are never truly lost).
16. August 2011 09:49 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Dinner in Montenegro 16. August 2011 09:49 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetdinner in montenegroShare After the Peljesac Peninsular we thought we'd drive to Montenegro for dinner. The border to Montenegro is about 30 kilometers from Dubrovnik and Herzeg Novi a coastal town is just on the other side of the border. Crossing the border we saw a 2 kilometer long queue of cars trying to get back to Croatia. Every car was being stopped and checked for how many cigarettes they were bringing across. We though "Oh My...we have to get back through this is a couple of hours time". Fortunately by the time we returned the queue had cleared and we were processed really fast at the border. It was a pleasant evening in the city and we had dinner along the seashore. People were really very friendly as well. The food was very nice and especially the Tiramisu and chocolate pancakes were indulgent. It was very hot so we used the opportunity to do some funny photos of Aiden.
16. August 2011 05:48 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Peljesac Peninsular 16. August 2011 05:48 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetpeljesac peninsularShare While in Dubrovnik we went for a drive up along the Peljesac Peninsular. It has some really nice litte beaches and the town of Ston has the most amazing fortres defence line running across the mountain tops. It is almost like the great wall of China. In total the town has 6km of defensive walls around it. We also came across this beautiful little abandoned church. We spent the afternoon at one of the beaches just dazing in the sun and letting Aiden play in the water. Some of the bay have small picturesque islands and there are lots of oyster and mussel farms that have been in operation since roman times.
15. August 2011 03:30 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Dubrovnik - Croatia 15. August 2011 03:30 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetdubrovnik croatiaShareAfter Bosnia we headed back to Croatia (and we then quickly had to cross back through Bosnia on the way to get there because of the geography) to Dubrovnik. Dubrovnik was founded in the 7th Century as a refugee camp after the fall of the roman empire. A Slavic invation forced the romans to seek further south and eventually barricaded themselves on a rocky outcrop at Dubrovnik buy using a natual channel and building big walls as a defence. Dubrovnik as such prospered and became a powerful trading port in the adriatic sea. Now it is probably one of the largest tourist attactions on the the eastern side of the adriatic sea. As usual Kim had done a great job finding accomidation in an apartment only 100 metres from one of the main gates to the city, so it was a easy stroll to the old town. My first impression of Dubrovnik was something along the lines of 'Holy @#@$@%...there are so many stairs here" (tough job carrying Aiden up and down stairs with a pram). Fortunately we found an easier way that did involve very little more walking, but no carrying...so all a happy family. The main street through the middle of Dubrovnik is very nice and full of nice places to eat and shop. There are a lot of people everywhere and in general everything is really expensive compared to elsewhere is Croatia. Parking for example was equivalent to $48 per day for street parking...and again considering it is a big tourist destination people are not that helpful with advise and guidance. There are also several churces that are very nice. Our favourite one (by far) was the St. Ignatius Church. Inclucing some museums such as the national archives which used to be the Sponza palace. This is the handrailing for the stairs As well as some great little Franciscan and Dominican monesteries. These both had some great little courtyard garden with palm and orange trees. As well as some cool water fountains (Aiden was very happy with these) and really likes a cool splash whenever he could get the chance. In more modern times, Dubrovnik was under heavy shelling by Serbian and Montenegro forces during the Yugoslav war in 1991 although it had absolutely no strategic value whatsoever. Click here to see a video of the shelling of Dubrovnik Today It is hard see any scars of this conflict as most of the buildings have been repaired although there are some signs of the shelling. And again I managed to sneak out for a couple of evening photos. Evening shots were really hard to take as they were usually around the time where we either had to have dinner or get Aiden ready for bed.
13. August 2011 05:39 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Mostar - Bosnia 13. August 2011 05:39 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetmostar bosniaShareAfter Split we headed across the border into Bosnia to a town called Mostar. Some will remember Mostar from the terrible fighting that took place here during the war in Yugoslavia in 1992 and 1993. The town has this beautiful river running through it with this anciant bridge running across it. During the war this bridge was blown up by the Bosnian Croat forces but has now been re-built thanks to the United Nations and especially Spain. The original bridge was built during the ottoman empire during the 16th Century. The Bridge looks even more stunning at night and especially with all the mosques in the surrounding area. Mostar is only a few hours drive from the border up through this beautiful valley. Today a fair number of tourists go to Mostar to see the bridge, but most of them only stay for one night and then move on. We decided to stay for two nights because it was easier with Aiden. Again Kim had done a good job finding accomodation in at Old museum (more like a beautiful old house really)...the was also the only house that was left more or less intact after the war (only a few mortar shells through the top floor). During the day we spent a few hours on the river going for a swim. The water was quite cool coming from the mountains and there was a lot of current so Kim and Aiden stayed at the edge, but I jumped in a few times and let the current take me a couple of meters before heading back to shore. The locals jump off the bridge and into the river...and it is a fairly high jump from the bridge to the water (24 metres apparently). Every year there is a special festival where they do it, but now they mainly do it to entertain the tourists for a bit of money in return. People were very friendly in Bosnia, of all the places we travelled through we probably found the croats the least approachable and helpful. During the war the town was surrounded by Bosnian Croat forces and the population consisting mainly of muslims decided to defend themselves. The city was hammered to pieces by Croat artiliry fire and even today it is hard to find a house without scars from bulletholes and grenades. It is worthwhile to have a look at the following video to see what happened here in 1993: Mostar in 1993 Mostar is surrounded by steaphills and it would have been almost impossible to find cover from snipers and artiliery from above. Now almost 20 years later there are still many ruins right in the centre of east Mostar where we were staying and there are lots of house that are full of bulletholes and people are still living in these houses.In the houses that have not been repaired it is almost impossible to find a 30 by 30cm patch that does not have a bullet hole or grenade fragments in it. It would have been a hell on earth living or fighting here during these times. Inside the city limites there are three cemeteries and they are all full of victims killed in 1993...all mixed with Muslim, Christian and Orthodox. It is a very sobering experience to see that every grave is marked with the exact same year and that almost every victim was born at about the same time as Kim and myself. Today the population seems to be getting along regardless of background and religion. The surrounding hills in the valley driving in from Croatia also have old castles and ruins on them. It is a very scenic drive and highly recommended. We have a very nice time in Bosnia and we can highly recommend that people go there to visit. People should not forget Mostar and especially not forget what happened here in 1992 and 1993.
12. August 2011 10:55 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Krka National Park - Croatia 12. August 2011 10:55 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetkrka national park croatiaShareWe spent a day driving to a National Park along the Krka river.This park has the most amazing waterfalls and clear blue water to swim in. Kim and I both agree that this park is much better and less overcrowded than Plitvice National Park. There are also fewer steps and better tracks whick made it more pram friendly. The park is full of small waterfalls. Back in time the water from the river was used to drive a watermill, which is still functioning to this day. The lower falls you can swim in. We all went for a swim and the water was beautiful...Aiden didn't want to leave.
10. August 2011 12:25 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Split - Croatia 10. August 2011 12:25 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetsplit croatiaShareAfter Denmark we went to Croatia. Our first stop was Split arriving late at night into Split Airport, picking up the rental car and baby seat and then navigating our way to the apartment we had rented for a few days. The apartment was very nice (Kim is good at finding accomodation) and they had provided a baby cot for Aiden to sleep in (all the places we stayed provided a cot for us), next to the best beach in town and it was about a kilometers walk from the central part of the city. Split is famous because of the Diocletians Palace, which is an enormous and fairly well preserved palace in the middle of the city. The Palace was built for the retirement of the Roman emperor Diocletian at around 300AD. There are still a lot of well preserved buildings and cellars within the palace walls, but there is also a lot of more 'modern' houses, shops, restaurants etc. Walking around and getting lost in the small alleys was really pleasant. Just outside the Gold gate there is an enormous status, and it is said that if you touch the toe of the statue then it brings you luck and guarantees your return to Split (We did drive past Split a week later....maybe that counts). In the evenings it was pleasant walking along the shore and take in the views of the city. And all the locals were out stretching their legs too... And we really enjoyed the fresh seafood. Aiden loved the food and the decor of some of the restaurants.
9. August 2011 04:56 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Rostock and Warnemunde 9. August 2011 04:56 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweetrostock and warnemundeShare On one of the other days we did a trip to Germany to a town called Rostock (former East Germany). This is a two hour ferry ride from where my dad lives. Rostock is one of the old Hansestads and the inner city has a lot of old houses and beautiful water fountains. It started raining so we decided to drive up to one of the other coastal towns called Warnemunde. This is a little very charming place with old houses, fishing boats and along the coast there are very nice groovy cafes. In the later afternoon we took the ferry back to Denmark. Aff the Danish coastline they have constructed a massive windmill park with hundreds of windmills generating Electricity.
8. August 2011 04:38 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Hans Christian Andersens House 8. August 2011 04:38 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments Tweethans christian andersens houseShare We went to HC Andersens house in Odense in Denmark. This is the house that he was living in and behind the house they have now build a museum and a park with a castle theatre for the kids. We started out in the park as there was a play about to start in the theatre. The play was a 15 minute recap of all the most famous stories and it was very well done and very funny (especially the Emperors new Clothing). Both Aiden and Bedstefar really enjoyed the play together. Afterwards we went to see the actual house HC andersen was living in. HC Andersen is one of Kims favourite writers. And we also visited the museum.
7. August 2011 07:40 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Hunter Valley Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overShareBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overnight in a cabin in Lovedale.During the day we tasted wines at the various wineries (found some good ones).The kids also loved playing at the cabin in the evenings. 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's placShareThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's place (too much cooking otherwise). I was responsible for the Christmas ham (with limited success).It was a relaxing day and the kids were very exited about their presents. 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Silliness 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a gooShareSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a good way to test the lighting and sometimes I managed to get a 'keeper' such as this one from a few weeks back. 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas family photo 2015 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the finShareIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the final version.It was an interesting process getting to this photo this year. Last year we did a photo in the kitchen of us baking a cake, but this years photo has so many more elements to it.The idea came from a combination of Kim and my ideas. Kim wanted to do a photo of the boys through a crystal ball. I actually bought the crystal ball right after Christmas last year with this year in mind.We did a test in front of the tree in early December which was reasonably okay, but Kim didn't like the feel to it. She wanted more snow (pretty ambitious on a summers day here in Sydney Australia).My idea for our family photo was based on me wanting to do a story of us as a family out in a snow storm 'Looking for Santa'. I had purchased a bag of artificial snow and a Christmas cape a few months back and we had some lanterns downstairs so I pretty much had all the components in place for the shoot.I knew I had to do it as a composite with the boys as there was no way that I would be able to get the photo with all four of us at once. We did the photo over a couple of days, on the first evening (after the kids had gone to bed) I took the one of Kim and myself holding the lantern. Once I had this photo I could show it to Aiden and Lucas so that they knew what we needed them to do (Lucas just had to copy Aiden).I had Gaffa taped markers on the floor so everyone would know where they were supposed to stand. Inside the lantern I had hidden a speedlight gelled with CTO to make it look light the lantern was lit. We are actually lit by a large Einstein strobe also with CTO, grid and barn doors to control the spill of the light. At the back left and right were another two speedlights providing a bit of rim light to emulate moon light.Because of the first 'failed' attempt of the crystal ball I got the idea to extend my 'Looking for Santa' photo into Santa's shed where he would have a crystal ball where he could look at us looking for him.This would require three components - The crystal ball, the lights from the Christmas tree to create atmosphere and then Santa himself. I created Santa by hanging a hat on a chair which was easy to light and then I had another light which I used to balance the ambient with the lights from the tree.The final photo all combined looks like the following, but in the end we decided to just use the tighter crop in the first and final photo. 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Graduation and Christmas Concert 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'ShareIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'big' school after Christmas, so this was also his graduation.Kim and Aiden had both practiced some dancing and songs for the concert and were both dressed up, Aiden as a doctor and Lucas as a pumpkin.Although Aiden was very excited leading up to the concert and was telling everyone how he was going to sing and dance, he absolutely broke down once we got there overwhelmed by all the people and the noise.It was heartbreaking to see him like that on an evening where he should be enjoying himself. He was crying and didn't want to get on the stage. Eventually we managed to get him up and he did try and participate.Lucas on the other hand had a great time, unfortunately I didn't get a lot of photos of that because I had to try and comfort Aiden.After the show Santa turned up wit presents for the kids and he was a lot happier again.After that the graduates had their photos taken and had cake. 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments 7th Anniversary 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still lovShareThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still love her to bits. 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin 0 Comments Ballet - Sleeping Beauty 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin | 0 Comments TweetSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the AustShareSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the Australian Ballet.It was one of the better ballets we have seen. The story was great and the dancing (lots of it) was of a really high quality.The even managed to weave in some of the Red riding hood story, Puss in boots, Cinderella and other stories.It was beautiful to watch. 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Velvet - 2015 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circuShareLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circus, burlesque and boogie nights (70's music) in one show.The show had great music with Marcia Hines and Brendan Maclean and the performers were great. I think everyones favourite was the guy with the hula hoops. 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Some more baby photos 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.ShareI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene. 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Claus as a tennis player 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have ShareThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have kept scans of all the newspaper clippings from when he was winning a lot of tournaments.In the mid 90's he started to get pretty sick and although he still tried to play tennis it was never at the same level again. Eventually he more or less gave up. His illness took to great a hold of him. These are some of the 'darkest' photos I have of him while he was struggling with his schizophrenia and were taken shortly before I moved to Australia.He lost contact with most of his friends and was very dependent on my mum and dad as well as other support programs in place.I prefer to remember him as he was before he passed away. This poem reminds me of him.The morning after I killed myself, I woke up. I made myself breakfast in bed. I added salt and pepper to my eggs and used my toast for a cheese and bacon sandwich. I squeezed a grapefruit into a juice glass. I scraped the ashes from the frying pan and rinsed the butter off the counter. I washed the dishes and folded the towels. The morning after I killed myself, I fell in love. Not with the boy down the street or the middle school principal. Not with the everyday jogger or the grocer who always left the avocados out of the bag. I fell in love with my mother and the way she sat on the floor of my room holding each rock from my collection in her palms until they grew dark with sweat. I fell in love with my father down at the river as he placed my note into a bottle and sent it into the current. With my brother who once believed in unicorns but who now sat in his desk at school trying desperately to believe I still existed. The morning after I killed myself, I walked the dog. I watched the way her tail twitched when a bird flew by or how her pace quickened at the sight of a cat. I saw the empty space in her eyes when she reached a stick and turned around to greet me so we could play catch but saw nothing but sky in my place. I stood by as strangers stroked her muzzle and she wilted beneath their touch like she did once for mine. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to the neighbors’ yard where I left my footprints in concrete as a two year old and examined how they were already fading. I picked a few daylilies and pulled a few weeds and watched the elderly woman through her window as she read the paper with the news of my death. I saw her husband spit tobacco into the kitchen sink and bring her her daily medication. The morning after I killed myself, I watched the sun come up. Each orange tree opened like a hand and the kid down the street pointed out a single red cloud to his mother. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to that body in the morgue and tried to talk some sense into her. I told her about the avocados and the stepping stones, the river and her parents. I told her about the sunsets and the dog and the beach. The morning after I killed myself, I tried to unkill myself, but couldn’t finish what I started. —Meggie Royer << Older posts Newer posts >> Newer posts12...202122232425262728...9394Older posts SearchInclude comments in search Newsletter Get notified when a new post is published. Enter your e-mail Please enter an e-mail address Please enter a valid e-mail Thank you
7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Hunter Valley Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overShareBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overnight in a cabin in Lovedale.During the day we tasted wines at the various wineries (found some good ones).The kids also loved playing at the cabin in the evenings.
7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's placShareThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's place (too much cooking otherwise). I was responsible for the Christmas ham (with limited success).It was a relaxing day and the kids were very exited about their presents.
16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Silliness 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a gooShareSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a good way to test the lighting and sometimes I managed to get a 'keeper' such as this one from a few weeks back.
16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas family photo 2015 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the finShareIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the final version.It was an interesting process getting to this photo this year. Last year we did a photo in the kitchen of us baking a cake, but this years photo has so many more elements to it.The idea came from a combination of Kim and my ideas. Kim wanted to do a photo of the boys through a crystal ball. I actually bought the crystal ball right after Christmas last year with this year in mind.We did a test in front of the tree in early December which was reasonably okay, but Kim didn't like the feel to it. She wanted more snow (pretty ambitious on a summers day here in Sydney Australia).My idea for our family photo was based on me wanting to do a story of us as a family out in a snow storm 'Looking for Santa'. I had purchased a bag of artificial snow and a Christmas cape a few months back and we had some lanterns downstairs so I pretty much had all the components in place for the shoot.I knew I had to do it as a composite with the boys as there was no way that I would be able to get the photo with all four of us at once. We did the photo over a couple of days, on the first evening (after the kids had gone to bed) I took the one of Kim and myself holding the lantern. Once I had this photo I could show it to Aiden and Lucas so that they knew what we needed them to do (Lucas just had to copy Aiden).I had Gaffa taped markers on the floor so everyone would know where they were supposed to stand. Inside the lantern I had hidden a speedlight gelled with CTO to make it look light the lantern was lit. We are actually lit by a large Einstein strobe also with CTO, grid and barn doors to control the spill of the light. At the back left and right were another two speedlights providing a bit of rim light to emulate moon light.Because of the first 'failed' attempt of the crystal ball I got the idea to extend my 'Looking for Santa' photo into Santa's shed where he would have a crystal ball where he could look at us looking for him.This would require three components - The crystal ball, the lights from the Christmas tree to create atmosphere and then Santa himself. I created Santa by hanging a hat on a chair which was easy to light and then I had another light which I used to balance the ambient with the lights from the tree.The final photo all combined looks like the following, but in the end we decided to just use the tighter crop in the first and final photo.
1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Graduation and Christmas Concert 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'ShareIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'big' school after Christmas, so this was also his graduation.Kim and Aiden had both practiced some dancing and songs for the concert and were both dressed up, Aiden as a doctor and Lucas as a pumpkin.Although Aiden was very excited leading up to the concert and was telling everyone how he was going to sing and dance, he absolutely broke down once we got there overwhelmed by all the people and the noise.It was heartbreaking to see him like that on an evening where he should be enjoying himself. He was crying and didn't want to get on the stage. Eventually we managed to get him up and he did try and participate.Lucas on the other hand had a great time, unfortunately I didn't get a lot of photos of that because I had to try and comfort Aiden.After the show Santa turned up wit presents for the kids and he was a lot happier again.After that the graduates had their photos taken and had cake.
1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments 7th Anniversary 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still lovShareThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still love her to bits.
29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin 0 Comments Ballet - Sleeping Beauty 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin | 0 Comments TweetSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the AustShareSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the Australian Ballet.It was one of the better ballets we have seen. The story was great and the dancing (lots of it) was of a really high quality.The even managed to weave in some of the Red riding hood story, Puss in boots, Cinderella and other stories.It was beautiful to watch.
25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Velvet - 2015 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circuShareLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circus, burlesque and boogie nights (70's music) in one show.The show had great music with Marcia Hines and Brendan Maclean and the performers were great. I think everyones favourite was the guy with the hula hoops.
1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Some more baby photos 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.ShareI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.
30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Claus as a tennis player 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have ShareThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have kept scans of all the newspaper clippings from when he was winning a lot of tournaments.In the mid 90's he started to get pretty sick and although he still tried to play tennis it was never at the same level again. Eventually he more or less gave up. His illness took to great a hold of him. These are some of the 'darkest' photos I have of him while he was struggling with his schizophrenia and were taken shortly before I moved to Australia.He lost contact with most of his friends and was very dependent on my mum and dad as well as other support programs in place.I prefer to remember him as he was before he passed away. This poem reminds me of him.The morning after I killed myself, I woke up. I made myself breakfast in bed. I added salt and pepper to my eggs and used my toast for a cheese and bacon sandwich. I squeezed a grapefruit into a juice glass. I scraped the ashes from the frying pan and rinsed the butter off the counter. I washed the dishes and folded the towels. The morning after I killed myself, I fell in love. Not with the boy down the street or the middle school principal. Not with the everyday jogger or the grocer who always left the avocados out of the bag. I fell in love with my mother and the way she sat on the floor of my room holding each rock from my collection in her palms until they grew dark with sweat. I fell in love with my father down at the river as he placed my note into a bottle and sent it into the current. With my brother who once believed in unicorns but who now sat in his desk at school trying desperately to believe I still existed. The morning after I killed myself, I walked the dog. I watched the way her tail twitched when a bird flew by or how her pace quickened at the sight of a cat. I saw the empty space in her eyes when she reached a stick and turned around to greet me so we could play catch but saw nothing but sky in my place. I stood by as strangers stroked her muzzle and she wilted beneath their touch like she did once for mine. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to the neighbors’ yard where I left my footprints in concrete as a two year old and examined how they were already fading. I picked a few daylilies and pulled a few weeds and watched the elderly woman through her window as she read the paper with the news of my death. I saw her husband spit tobacco into the kitchen sink and bring her her daily medication. The morning after I killed myself, I watched the sun come up. Each orange tree opened like a hand and the kid down the street pointed out a single red cloud to his mother. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to that body in the morgue and tried to talk some sense into her. I told her about the avocados and the stepping stones, the river and her parents. I told her about the sunsets and the dog and the beach. The morning after I killed myself, I tried to unkill myself, but couldn’t finish what I started. —Meggie Royer