28. September 2015 15:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments More childhood memories 28. September 2015 15:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetHere are some more photos from my childhood in no particular order. The first ones from a New Years ShareHere are some more photos from my childhood in no particular order. The first ones from a New Years eve where we got a bit silly with the hats. These were taken at a New Years even in Kenya and before my brother got really sick, so probably around 1989/90.And here is Claus.And my mum.I was really good at shooting when I was a kid and won lots of championships. This photo is one of the few things I have from that time.This is Claus and I with our dog.Not sure which ones of these is Claus and which is me.This was taken just christmas day in the back yard of my grandma's (Mormor) house. We got the skis as a christmas present. All the fields behind her house belonged to my mothers brother Flemming.I think this may be my brother. For the first time I've noticed the photo in the background. It looks like this may be a photo of my mum with her two sisters and brother and what could be her dad Raimer in the middle.This would most likely be the new years eve where we were trapped by the snow 1978/79. We were supposed to have celebrated with the family but couldn't even get out of the house. Delicious with a glass of milk and a pie.We didn't have a lawn in the back yard. Instead we had pebbles...lots of fun shoveling them.This I think is a christmas eve dinner at my grandmas (mormor) place. My mum on the left and my uncle Flemming in the middle. Not sure who the person standing up in. It could be my grandmas brother. Possibly from around 1976/77I think it is my great grandpa (Raimer) in the middle row number two from the left. The title of the photo says that it is Christoffer (??) in the top left corner. Looking at the age of the boys this would have been taken in the 1920's.Claus dancing aeound the christmas tree and my mum and grandma (Bedstemor/Farmor).From left to Right. My grandma (On my dads side/Bedstemor/farmor), Knud Aage (My uncle/dads brother), My mum (in the foreground), My grandad (in the background), Irene (my auntie/dads sister), Grete and I assume the baby is Vinnie which means that it is likely that my mum was pregnant with Claus (born in July).This was taken at my grandparents place and after my brother got sick. He was really suffering at this point.This is one of the happiest family photos I have and the only one I have a print of.Going for a walk at Marielyst with Lott and Willy some of our german friends. Claus in the foreground and my dad on the right. I think you can just spot me in yellow pants in the background.I think this is at Lotte and Willy's summer house.Not sure if this is Claus or myself being babtised. It is my grand mother being god mother.This was taken outside our summer house in Marielyst.My brother number 2 from the top right on his school photo.Claus at daycare number 4 from the top left.Me at day care top left.
27. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments My Mum as a young girl and with her siblings 27. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetHere is some more old photos of my mum. This time with here brother and sisters.This first one if prShareHere is some more old photos of my mum. This time with here brother and sisters.This first one if probably one of the oldest. You can tell that the photo was shot in black and white and that the negative was later coloured (badly). It would be my mum in the middle with her two sisters Eli (the oldest on the right) and Yrsa.This is my mum in the middle with what I assume is cousins.I think it is my grandmother (Karen) holding my mum.Here is the same as the first photo, but this time without the colour.My mum and her sisters playing in the courtyard of their farmMy mum with her older sisters.Eli, Yrsa, Sonja and Flemming Kragh.Having her photo taken as a little girl.Upset about having her photo taken?My mum with her younger brother Flemming.As a liitle girlMy mum in school.From left to right...Eli, Yrsa my mum (Sonja) and Flemming.As a young girls/woman...possibly from her Konfirmation.My mum as a girl scout (no 4 from the left).It is Flemming in the middle and my mum on the right.
27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Lucas Birthday 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetEarlier this month it was Lucas birthday.We didn't have a kids party for him, but we did celebrate wShareEarlier this month it was Lucas birthday.We didn't have a kids party for him, but we did celebrate with the family.We gave him a new bike for his birthday...he was stunned and didn't know what to think of it, but he loves riding it now.
27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Lego Exhibition 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend there was a Lego exhibition in the city.We caught the train in to St James station and ShareLast weekend there was a Lego exhibition in the city.We caught the train in to St James station and walked from there.It was a fairly small exhibition with my favourite being the pirate ship with all the details of the lower decks.There was also some Ninjago and Star wars.And a lot of other pieces.
27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Walk to Lurline Bay 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis weekend we took the kids for a walk with some friends from Maroubra to Lurline Bay.It is a niceShare Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 28. September 2015 15:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments More childhood memories 28. September 2015 15:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetHere are some more photos from my childhood in no particular order. The first ones from a New Years ShareHere are some more photos from my childhood in no particular order. The first ones from a New Years eve where we got a bit silly with the hats. These were taken at a New Years even in Kenya and before my brother got really sick, so probably around 1989/90.And here is Claus.And my mum.I was really good at shooting when I was a kid and won lots of championships. This photo is one of the few things I have from that time.This is Claus and I with our dog.Not sure which ones of these is Claus and which is me.This was taken just christmas day in the back yard of my grandma's (Mormor) house. We got the skis as a christmas present. All the fields behind her house belonged to my mothers brother Flemming.I think this may be my brother. For the first time I've noticed the photo in the background. It looks like this may be a photo of my mum with her two sisters and brother and what could be her dad Raimer in the middle.This would most likely be the new years eve where we were trapped by the snow 1978/79. We were supposed to have celebrated with the family but couldn't even get out of the house. Delicious with a glass of milk and a pie.We didn't have a lawn in the back yard. Instead we had pebbles...lots of fun shoveling them.This I think is a christmas eve dinner at my grandmas (mormor) place. My mum on the left and my uncle Flemming in the middle. Not sure who the person standing up in. It could be my grandmas brother. Possibly from around 1976/77I think it is my great grandpa (Raimer) in the middle row number two from the left. The title of the photo says that it is Christoffer (??) in the top left corner. Looking at the age of the boys this would have been taken in the 1920's.Claus dancing aeound the christmas tree and my mum and grandma (Bedstemor/Farmor).From left to Right. My grandma (On my dads side/Bedstemor/farmor), Knud Aage (My uncle/dads brother), My mum (in the foreground), My grandad (in the background), Irene (my auntie/dads sister), Grete and I assume the baby is Vinnie which means that it is likely that my mum was pregnant with Claus (born in July).This was taken at my grandparents place and after my brother got sick. He was really suffering at this point.This is one of the happiest family photos I have and the only one I have a print of.Going for a walk at Marielyst with Lott and Willy some of our german friends. Claus in the foreground and my dad on the right. I think you can just spot me in yellow pants in the background.I think this is at Lotte and Willy's summer house.Not sure if this is Claus or myself being babtised. It is my grand mother being god mother.This was taken outside our summer house in Marielyst.My brother number 2 from the top right on his school photo.Claus at daycare number 4 from the top left.Me at day care top left. 27. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments My Mum as a young girl and with her siblings 27. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetHere is some more old photos of my mum. This time with here brother and sisters.This first one if prShareHere is some more old photos of my mum. This time with here brother and sisters.This first one if probably one of the oldest. You can tell that the photo was shot in black and white and that the negative was later coloured (badly). It would be my mum in the middle with her two sisters Eli (the oldest on the right) and Yrsa.This is my mum in the middle with what I assume is cousins.I think it is my grandmother (Karen) holding my mum.Here is the same as the first photo, but this time without the colour.My mum and her sisters playing in the courtyard of their farmMy mum with her older sisters.Eli, Yrsa, Sonja and Flemming Kragh.Having her photo taken as a little girl.Upset about having her photo taken?My mum with her younger brother Flemming.As a liitle girlMy mum in school.From left to right...Eli, Yrsa my mum (Sonja) and Flemming.As a young girls/woman...possibly from her Konfirmation.My mum as a girl scout (no 4 from the left).It is Flemming in the middle and my mum on the right. 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Lucas Birthday 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetEarlier this month it was Lucas birthday.We didn't have a kids party for him, but we did celebrate wShareEarlier this month it was Lucas birthday.We didn't have a kids party for him, but we did celebrate with the family.We gave him a new bike for his birthday...he was stunned and didn't know what to think of it, but he loves riding it now. 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Lego Exhibition 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend there was a Lego exhibition in the city.We caught the train in to St James station and ShareLast weekend there was a Lego exhibition in the city.We caught the train in to St James station and walked from there.It was a fairly small exhibition with my favourite being the pirate ship with all the details of the lower decks.There was also some Ninjago and Star wars.And a lot of other pieces. 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Walk to Lurline Bay 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis weekend we took the kids for a walk with some friends from Maroubra to Lurline Bay.It is a niceShare Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Hunter Valley Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overShareBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overnight in a cabin in Lovedale.During the day we tasted wines at the various wineries (found some good ones).The kids also loved playing at the cabin in the evenings. 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's placShareThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's place (too much cooking otherwise). I was responsible for the Christmas ham (with limited success).It was a relaxing day and the kids were very exited about their presents. 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Silliness 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a gooShareSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a good way to test the lighting and sometimes I managed to get a 'keeper' such as this one from a few weeks back. 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas family photo 2015 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the finShareIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the final version.It was an interesting process getting to this photo this year. Last year we did a photo in the kitchen of us baking a cake, but this years photo has so many more elements to it.The idea came from a combination of Kim and my ideas. Kim wanted to do a photo of the boys through a crystal ball. I actually bought the crystal ball right after Christmas last year with this year in mind.We did a test in front of the tree in early December which was reasonably okay, but Kim didn't like the feel to it. She wanted more snow (pretty ambitious on a summers day here in Sydney Australia).My idea for our family photo was based on me wanting to do a story of us as a family out in a snow storm 'Looking for Santa'. I had purchased a bag of artificial snow and a Christmas cape a few months back and we had some lanterns downstairs so I pretty much had all the components in place for the shoot.I knew I had to do it as a composite with the boys as there was no way that I would be able to get the photo with all four of us at once. We did the photo over a couple of days, on the first evening (after the kids had gone to bed) I took the one of Kim and myself holding the lantern. Once I had this photo I could show it to Aiden and Lucas so that they knew what we needed them to do (Lucas just had to copy Aiden).I had Gaffa taped markers on the floor so everyone would know where they were supposed to stand. Inside the lantern I had hidden a speedlight gelled with CTO to make it look light the lantern was lit. We are actually lit by a large Einstein strobe also with CTO, grid and barn doors to control the spill of the light. At the back left and right were another two speedlights providing a bit of rim light to emulate moon light.Because of the first 'failed' attempt of the crystal ball I got the idea to extend my 'Looking for Santa' photo into Santa's shed where he would have a crystal ball where he could look at us looking for him.This would require three components - The crystal ball, the lights from the Christmas tree to create atmosphere and then Santa himself. I created Santa by hanging a hat on a chair which was easy to light and then I had another light which I used to balance the ambient with the lights from the tree.The final photo all combined looks like the following, but in the end we decided to just use the tighter crop in the first and final photo. 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Graduation and Christmas Concert 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'ShareIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'big' school after Christmas, so this was also his graduation.Kim and Aiden had both practiced some dancing and songs for the concert and were both dressed up, Aiden as a doctor and Lucas as a pumpkin.Although Aiden was very excited leading up to the concert and was telling everyone how he was going to sing and dance, he absolutely broke down once we got there overwhelmed by all the people and the noise.It was heartbreaking to see him like that on an evening where he should be enjoying himself. He was crying and didn't want to get on the stage. Eventually we managed to get him up and he did try and participate.Lucas on the other hand had a great time, unfortunately I didn't get a lot of photos of that because I had to try and comfort Aiden.After the show Santa turned up wit presents for the kids and he was a lot happier again.After that the graduates had their photos taken and had cake. 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments 7th Anniversary 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still lovShareThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still love her to bits. 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin 0 Comments Ballet - Sleeping Beauty 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin | 0 Comments TweetSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the AustShareSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the Australian Ballet.It was one of the better ballets we have seen. The story was great and the dancing (lots of it) was of a really high quality.The even managed to weave in some of the Red riding hood story, Puss in boots, Cinderella and other stories.It was beautiful to watch. 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Velvet - 2015 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circuShareLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circus, burlesque and boogie nights (70's music) in one show.The show had great music with Marcia Hines and Brendan Maclean and the performers were great. I think everyones favourite was the guy with the hula hoops. 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Some more baby photos 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.ShareI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene. 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Claus as a tennis player 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have ShareThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have kept scans of all the newspaper clippings from when he was winning a lot of tournaments.In the mid 90's he started to get pretty sick and although he still tried to play tennis it was never at the same level again. Eventually he more or less gave up. His illness took to great a hold of him. These are some of the 'darkest' photos I have of him while he was struggling with his schizophrenia and were taken shortly before I moved to Australia.He lost contact with most of his friends and was very dependent on my mum and dad as well as other support programs in place.I prefer to remember him as he was before he passed away. This poem reminds me of him.The morning after I killed myself, I woke up. I made myself breakfast in bed. I added salt and pepper to my eggs and used my toast for a cheese and bacon sandwich. I squeezed a grapefruit into a juice glass. I scraped the ashes from the frying pan and rinsed the butter off the counter. I washed the dishes and folded the towels. The morning after I killed myself, I fell in love. Not with the boy down the street or the middle school principal. Not with the everyday jogger or the grocer who always left the avocados out of the bag. I fell in love with my mother and the way she sat on the floor of my room holding each rock from my collection in her palms until they grew dark with sweat. I fell in love with my father down at the river as he placed my note into a bottle and sent it into the current. With my brother who once believed in unicorns but who now sat in his desk at school trying desperately to believe I still existed. The morning after I killed myself, I walked the dog. I watched the way her tail twitched when a bird flew by or how her pace quickened at the sight of a cat. I saw the empty space in her eyes when she reached a stick and turned around to greet me so we could play catch but saw nothing but sky in my place. I stood by as strangers stroked her muzzle and she wilted beneath their touch like she did once for mine. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to the neighbors’ yard where I left my footprints in concrete as a two year old and examined how they were already fading. I picked a few daylilies and pulled a few weeds and watched the elderly woman through her window as she read the paper with the news of my death. I saw her husband spit tobacco into the kitchen sink and bring her her daily medication. The morning after I killed myself, I watched the sun come up. Each orange tree opened like a hand and the kid down the street pointed out a single red cloud to his mother. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to that body in the morgue and tried to talk some sense into her. I told her about the avocados and the stepping stones, the river and her parents. I told her about the sunsets and the dog and the beach. The morning after I killed myself, I tried to unkill myself, but couldn’t finish what I started. —Meggie Royer << Older posts Newer posts >> Newer posts12...202122232425262728...9394Older posts SearchInclude comments in search Newsletter Get notified when a new post is published. Enter your e-mail Please enter an e-mail address Please enter a valid e-mail Thank you Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 26. August 2018 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Camping - Wombeyan Caves 26. August 2018 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetWe made another camping trip. This time to Wombeyan caves with one of Kims colleagues.It was just beShareWe made another camping trip. This time to Wombeyan caves with one of Kims colleagues.It was just before winter set in, so the nights were cold and it was nice sitting around the fire at night.There are a lot of limestone caves in the area that are worth visiting. We did this one which was self guided.I tried to teach the boys how to shoot with a bow - kept them busy for a while.We also rigged up a badminton net for both adults and kids to play.But mostly it was the fire that the boys had fun with.We also did a really long 8km walk - almost lost the track at one point. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments My dad's 75th birthday 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year it was my dad's 75 birthday. I traveled back for the party.The party was at a little hotelShareThis year it was my dad's 75 birthday. I traveled back for the party.The party was at a little hotel (in danish called a 'Kro') at Soroe.While there I also got to see the new house they are living in. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Thailand - Ayutthaya 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAyutthaya is the old capital of Thailand. It is a couple of hour north of Bangkok, and the easiest wShareAyutthaya is the old capital of Thailand. It is a couple of hour north of Bangkok, and the easiest way to get there (by far) is by Train (we learned this the hard way).The capital was only moved 250 years ago after it was ransacked by the Burmese, but now most of what used to be some extraordinary buildings are now mostly rubble.It is a large area with lots of temples, so it is worthwhile having plenty of time and not rush it. We just visited three of the main sites, and that was plenty with the kids around.Some of the highlights are the big lying down Buddha.People still use this as a place of worship.And apparently it is good luck if you can make a coin stick on the buddhas feed (without resorting to chewing gum).At one of the temples there is also the head of Buddha stuck in the roots of the tree.And as usual it is worthwhile keeping a look out for other moments involving people. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Thailand - Ayutthaya Train 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetWe took the train back to Bangkok after visiting Ayutthaya on 2nd class tickets.There is not much diShareWe took the train back to Bangkok after visiting Ayutthaya on 2nd class tickets.There is not much difference between the classes except extra bolstering on the seats. We however found a more open carriage where the kids could better play, draw and read books during the ride. There was also a bit more life here. I went for a couple of walks through the train and found a lot of interesting sights.The carriages were open between the carriages, so people used these areas to sit sown and get some fresh air or a smoke.There was also a section that was reserved for monks, where I got permission to take this shot.The mail/cargo carriage was more open with this man sitting keeping an eye on things.As we approached Bangkok the man from the little kitchen chased people away from a part of our carriage as this was his place to sleep. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Blue Mountains 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis winter we went to the Blue mountains with a group of friends. We hired a house at Leura and speShareThis winter we went to the Blue mountains with a group of friends. We hired a house at Leura and spend the days going for walks.This is from the Grans Canyon walk.And some from the other walks. Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Birthday 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthdShareI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthday party with all the kids (and mum and dad) dressed up as super heroes.We also had a family dinner where we celebrated both his, Kayla's and Adams (his cousins) birthdays. 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Morning of Frost 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we haShareAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we have also had some cold mornings.One morning the car had frost on it and it was only 5 degrees outside (most winter mornings it is 8-10 degrees with 18-22 degree daytime temps). 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden graduating to Turtle 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the ShareLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the swim class for a couple of years now and never graduated. He would swim fine with me, but would cry and be scared with the swim teacher.After our trip to Thailand in June he gained a lot of confidence and was very happy to swim by himself, but the swim teacher was too careful so he was unable to show what a good swimmer he really is. So, last weekend I asked the swim teacher to let him swim with the result that she by the end of the lesson graduated him and moved him to the next class.He was so proud (and so was his dad). 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Coastal walk with the boys 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee toShareIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee to Clovelly on a beautiful winters day.The water in the little bays were calm and clear.Half way we sat down and had a snack.Kim braved it with the aerial yoga.And the boys were being themselves...best mates.They loved being outside and they managed to walk the whole way (bribed by ice cream) even though Lucas on the last stretch was asking to be picked up. 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Steam train day 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old ShareThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old steam trains.Here we learned that steam trains in NSW were running up until 1973 which means that we were born in the era of steam trains...makes me feel really old.We went for a ride on one of the old steam trains (I think I was more excited than the kids).As usual Aiden and Lucas were monkeying around being best mates. This is a bus on rails.This is an instruction carriage used to teach how to operate the brakes on a steam train. 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Phuket - Kims Birthday 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetOn the day we were flying out it was Kims birthday.I had arranged a cake for her in the morning ordeShare
28. September 2015 15:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments More childhood memories 28. September 2015 15:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetHere are some more photos from my childhood in no particular order. The first ones from a New Years ShareHere are some more photos from my childhood in no particular order. The first ones from a New Years eve where we got a bit silly with the hats. These were taken at a New Years even in Kenya and before my brother got really sick, so probably around 1989/90.And here is Claus.And my mum.I was really good at shooting when I was a kid and won lots of championships. This photo is one of the few things I have from that time.This is Claus and I with our dog.Not sure which ones of these is Claus and which is me.This was taken just christmas day in the back yard of my grandma's (Mormor) house. We got the skis as a christmas present. All the fields behind her house belonged to my mothers brother Flemming.I think this may be my brother. For the first time I've noticed the photo in the background. It looks like this may be a photo of my mum with her two sisters and brother and what could be her dad Raimer in the middle.This would most likely be the new years eve where we were trapped by the snow 1978/79. We were supposed to have celebrated with the family but couldn't even get out of the house. Delicious with a glass of milk and a pie.We didn't have a lawn in the back yard. Instead we had pebbles...lots of fun shoveling them.This I think is a christmas eve dinner at my grandmas (mormor) place. My mum on the left and my uncle Flemming in the middle. Not sure who the person standing up in. It could be my grandmas brother. Possibly from around 1976/77I think it is my great grandpa (Raimer) in the middle row number two from the left. The title of the photo says that it is Christoffer (??) in the top left corner. Looking at the age of the boys this would have been taken in the 1920's.Claus dancing aeound the christmas tree and my mum and grandma (Bedstemor/Farmor).From left to Right. My grandma (On my dads side/Bedstemor/farmor), Knud Aage (My uncle/dads brother), My mum (in the foreground), My grandad (in the background), Irene (my auntie/dads sister), Grete and I assume the baby is Vinnie which means that it is likely that my mum was pregnant with Claus (born in July).This was taken at my grandparents place and after my brother got sick. He was really suffering at this point.This is one of the happiest family photos I have and the only one I have a print of.Going for a walk at Marielyst with Lott and Willy some of our german friends. Claus in the foreground and my dad on the right. I think you can just spot me in yellow pants in the background.I think this is at Lotte and Willy's summer house.Not sure if this is Claus or myself being babtised. It is my grand mother being god mother.This was taken outside our summer house in Marielyst.My brother number 2 from the top right on his school photo.Claus at daycare number 4 from the top left.Me at day care top left.
27. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments My Mum as a young girl and with her siblings 27. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetHere is some more old photos of my mum. This time with here brother and sisters.This first one if prShareHere is some more old photos of my mum. This time with here brother and sisters.This first one if probably one of the oldest. You can tell that the photo was shot in black and white and that the negative was later coloured (badly). It would be my mum in the middle with her two sisters Eli (the oldest on the right) and Yrsa.This is my mum in the middle with what I assume is cousins.I think it is my grandmother (Karen) holding my mum.Here is the same as the first photo, but this time without the colour.My mum and her sisters playing in the courtyard of their farmMy mum with her older sisters.Eli, Yrsa, Sonja and Flemming Kragh.Having her photo taken as a little girl.Upset about having her photo taken?My mum with her younger brother Flemming.As a liitle girlMy mum in school.From left to right...Eli, Yrsa my mum (Sonja) and Flemming.As a young girls/woman...possibly from her Konfirmation.My mum as a girl scout (no 4 from the left).It is Flemming in the middle and my mum on the right.
27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Lucas Birthday 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetEarlier this month it was Lucas birthday.We didn't have a kids party for him, but we did celebrate wShareEarlier this month it was Lucas birthday.We didn't have a kids party for him, but we did celebrate with the family.We gave him a new bike for his birthday...he was stunned and didn't know what to think of it, but he loves riding it now.
27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Lego Exhibition 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend there was a Lego exhibition in the city.We caught the train in to St James station and ShareLast weekend there was a Lego exhibition in the city.We caught the train in to St James station and walked from there.It was a fairly small exhibition with my favourite being the pirate ship with all the details of the lower decks.There was also some Ninjago and Star wars.And a lot of other pieces.
27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Walk to Lurline Bay 27. September 2015 17:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis weekend we took the kids for a walk with some friends from Maroubra to Lurline Bay.It is a niceShare Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Hunter Valley Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overShareBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overnight in a cabin in Lovedale.During the day we tasted wines at the various wineries (found some good ones).The kids also loved playing at the cabin in the evenings. 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's placShareThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's place (too much cooking otherwise). I was responsible for the Christmas ham (with limited success).It was a relaxing day and the kids were very exited about their presents. 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Silliness 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a gooShareSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a good way to test the lighting and sometimes I managed to get a 'keeper' such as this one from a few weeks back. 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas family photo 2015 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the finShareIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the final version.It was an interesting process getting to this photo this year. Last year we did a photo in the kitchen of us baking a cake, but this years photo has so many more elements to it.The idea came from a combination of Kim and my ideas. Kim wanted to do a photo of the boys through a crystal ball. I actually bought the crystal ball right after Christmas last year with this year in mind.We did a test in front of the tree in early December which was reasonably okay, but Kim didn't like the feel to it. She wanted more snow (pretty ambitious on a summers day here in Sydney Australia).My idea for our family photo was based on me wanting to do a story of us as a family out in a snow storm 'Looking for Santa'. I had purchased a bag of artificial snow and a Christmas cape a few months back and we had some lanterns downstairs so I pretty much had all the components in place for the shoot.I knew I had to do it as a composite with the boys as there was no way that I would be able to get the photo with all four of us at once. We did the photo over a couple of days, on the first evening (after the kids had gone to bed) I took the one of Kim and myself holding the lantern. Once I had this photo I could show it to Aiden and Lucas so that they knew what we needed them to do (Lucas just had to copy Aiden).I had Gaffa taped markers on the floor so everyone would know where they were supposed to stand. Inside the lantern I had hidden a speedlight gelled with CTO to make it look light the lantern was lit. We are actually lit by a large Einstein strobe also with CTO, grid and barn doors to control the spill of the light. At the back left and right were another two speedlights providing a bit of rim light to emulate moon light.Because of the first 'failed' attempt of the crystal ball I got the idea to extend my 'Looking for Santa' photo into Santa's shed where he would have a crystal ball where he could look at us looking for him.This would require three components - The crystal ball, the lights from the Christmas tree to create atmosphere and then Santa himself. I created Santa by hanging a hat on a chair which was easy to light and then I had another light which I used to balance the ambient with the lights from the tree.The final photo all combined looks like the following, but in the end we decided to just use the tighter crop in the first and final photo. 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Graduation and Christmas Concert 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'ShareIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'big' school after Christmas, so this was also his graduation.Kim and Aiden had both practiced some dancing and songs for the concert and were both dressed up, Aiden as a doctor and Lucas as a pumpkin.Although Aiden was very excited leading up to the concert and was telling everyone how he was going to sing and dance, he absolutely broke down once we got there overwhelmed by all the people and the noise.It was heartbreaking to see him like that on an evening where he should be enjoying himself. He was crying and didn't want to get on the stage. Eventually we managed to get him up and he did try and participate.Lucas on the other hand had a great time, unfortunately I didn't get a lot of photos of that because I had to try and comfort Aiden.After the show Santa turned up wit presents for the kids and he was a lot happier again.After that the graduates had their photos taken and had cake. 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments 7th Anniversary 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still lovShareThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still love her to bits. 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin 0 Comments Ballet - Sleeping Beauty 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin | 0 Comments TweetSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the AustShareSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the Australian Ballet.It was one of the better ballets we have seen. The story was great and the dancing (lots of it) was of a really high quality.The even managed to weave in some of the Red riding hood story, Puss in boots, Cinderella and other stories.It was beautiful to watch. 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Velvet - 2015 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circuShareLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circus, burlesque and boogie nights (70's music) in one show.The show had great music with Marcia Hines and Brendan Maclean and the performers were great. I think everyones favourite was the guy with the hula hoops. 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Some more baby photos 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.ShareI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene. 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Claus as a tennis player 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have ShareThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have kept scans of all the newspaper clippings from when he was winning a lot of tournaments.In the mid 90's he started to get pretty sick and although he still tried to play tennis it was never at the same level again. Eventually he more or less gave up. His illness took to great a hold of him. These are some of the 'darkest' photos I have of him while he was struggling with his schizophrenia and were taken shortly before I moved to Australia.He lost contact with most of his friends and was very dependent on my mum and dad as well as other support programs in place.I prefer to remember him as he was before he passed away. This poem reminds me of him.The morning after I killed myself, I woke up. I made myself breakfast in bed. I added salt and pepper to my eggs and used my toast for a cheese and bacon sandwich. I squeezed a grapefruit into a juice glass. I scraped the ashes from the frying pan and rinsed the butter off the counter. I washed the dishes and folded the towels. The morning after I killed myself, I fell in love. Not with the boy down the street or the middle school principal. Not with the everyday jogger or the grocer who always left the avocados out of the bag. I fell in love with my mother and the way she sat on the floor of my room holding each rock from my collection in her palms until they grew dark with sweat. I fell in love with my father down at the river as he placed my note into a bottle and sent it into the current. With my brother who once believed in unicorns but who now sat in his desk at school trying desperately to believe I still existed. The morning after I killed myself, I walked the dog. I watched the way her tail twitched when a bird flew by or how her pace quickened at the sight of a cat. I saw the empty space in her eyes when she reached a stick and turned around to greet me so we could play catch but saw nothing but sky in my place. I stood by as strangers stroked her muzzle and she wilted beneath their touch like she did once for mine. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to the neighbors’ yard where I left my footprints in concrete as a two year old and examined how they were already fading. I picked a few daylilies and pulled a few weeds and watched the elderly woman through her window as she read the paper with the news of my death. I saw her husband spit tobacco into the kitchen sink and bring her her daily medication. The morning after I killed myself, I watched the sun come up. Each orange tree opened like a hand and the kid down the street pointed out a single red cloud to his mother. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to that body in the morgue and tried to talk some sense into her. I told her about the avocados and the stepping stones, the river and her parents. I told her about the sunsets and the dog and the beach. The morning after I killed myself, I tried to unkill myself, but couldn’t finish what I started. —Meggie Royer << Older posts Newer posts >> Newer posts12...202122232425262728...9394Older posts SearchInclude comments in search Newsletter Get notified when a new post is published. Enter your e-mail Please enter an e-mail address Please enter a valid e-mail Thank you Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 26. August 2018 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Camping - Wombeyan Caves 26. August 2018 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetWe made another camping trip. This time to Wombeyan caves with one of Kims colleagues.It was just beShareWe made another camping trip. This time to Wombeyan caves with one of Kims colleagues.It was just before winter set in, so the nights were cold and it was nice sitting around the fire at night.There are a lot of limestone caves in the area that are worth visiting. We did this one which was self guided.I tried to teach the boys how to shoot with a bow - kept them busy for a while.We also rigged up a badminton net for both adults and kids to play.But mostly it was the fire that the boys had fun with.We also did a really long 8km walk - almost lost the track at one point. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments My dad's 75th birthday 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year it was my dad's 75 birthday. I traveled back for the party.The party was at a little hotelShareThis year it was my dad's 75 birthday. I traveled back for the party.The party was at a little hotel (in danish called a 'Kro') at Soroe.While there I also got to see the new house they are living in. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Thailand - Ayutthaya 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAyutthaya is the old capital of Thailand. It is a couple of hour north of Bangkok, and the easiest wShareAyutthaya is the old capital of Thailand. It is a couple of hour north of Bangkok, and the easiest way to get there (by far) is by Train (we learned this the hard way).The capital was only moved 250 years ago after it was ransacked by the Burmese, but now most of what used to be some extraordinary buildings are now mostly rubble.It is a large area with lots of temples, so it is worthwhile having plenty of time and not rush it. We just visited three of the main sites, and that was plenty with the kids around.Some of the highlights are the big lying down Buddha.People still use this as a place of worship.And apparently it is good luck if you can make a coin stick on the buddhas feed (without resorting to chewing gum).At one of the temples there is also the head of Buddha stuck in the roots of the tree.And as usual it is worthwhile keeping a look out for other moments involving people. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Thailand - Ayutthaya Train 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetWe took the train back to Bangkok after visiting Ayutthaya on 2nd class tickets.There is not much diShareWe took the train back to Bangkok after visiting Ayutthaya on 2nd class tickets.There is not much difference between the classes except extra bolstering on the seats. We however found a more open carriage where the kids could better play, draw and read books during the ride. There was also a bit more life here. I went for a couple of walks through the train and found a lot of interesting sights.The carriages were open between the carriages, so people used these areas to sit sown and get some fresh air or a smoke.There was also a section that was reserved for monks, where I got permission to take this shot.The mail/cargo carriage was more open with this man sitting keeping an eye on things.As we approached Bangkok the man from the little kitchen chased people away from a part of our carriage as this was his place to sleep. 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Blue Mountains 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis winter we went to the Blue mountains with a group of friends. We hired a house at Leura and speShareThis winter we went to the Blue mountains with a group of friends. We hired a house at Leura and spend the days going for walks.This is from the Grans Canyon walk.And some from the other walks. Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Birthday 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthdShareI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthday party with all the kids (and mum and dad) dressed up as super heroes.We also had a family dinner where we celebrated both his, Kayla's and Adams (his cousins) birthdays. 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Morning of Frost 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we haShareAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we have also had some cold mornings.One morning the car had frost on it and it was only 5 degrees outside (most winter mornings it is 8-10 degrees with 18-22 degree daytime temps). 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden graduating to Turtle 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the ShareLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the swim class for a couple of years now and never graduated. He would swim fine with me, but would cry and be scared with the swim teacher.After our trip to Thailand in June he gained a lot of confidence and was very happy to swim by himself, but the swim teacher was too careful so he was unable to show what a good swimmer he really is. So, last weekend I asked the swim teacher to let him swim with the result that she by the end of the lesson graduated him and moved him to the next class.He was so proud (and so was his dad). 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Coastal walk with the boys 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee toShareIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee to Clovelly on a beautiful winters day.The water in the little bays were calm and clear.Half way we sat down and had a snack.Kim braved it with the aerial yoga.And the boys were being themselves...best mates.They loved being outside and they managed to walk the whole way (bribed by ice cream) even though Lucas on the last stretch was asking to be picked up. 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Steam train day 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old ShareThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old steam trains.Here we learned that steam trains in NSW were running up until 1973 which means that we were born in the era of steam trains...makes me feel really old.We went for a ride on one of the old steam trains (I think I was more excited than the kids).As usual Aiden and Lucas were monkeying around being best mates. This is a bus on rails.This is an instruction carriage used to teach how to operate the brakes on a steam train. 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Phuket - Kims Birthday 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetOn the day we were flying out it was Kims birthday.I had arranged a cake for her in the morning ordeShare
7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Hunter Valley Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overShareBetween Christmas and New year we went to the Hunter Valley with Sasha and his family.We stayed overnight in a cabin in Lovedale.During the day we tasted wines at the various wineries (found some good ones).The kids also loved playing at the cabin in the evenings.
7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas 2015 7. January 2016 18:01 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's placShareThis year we decided not to celebrate on the eve of the 24 and just stick with the 25th at KC's place (too much cooking otherwise). I was responsible for the Christmas ham (with limited success).It was a relaxing day and the kids were very exited about their presents.
16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Silliness 16. December 2015 13:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a gooShareSometimes when I am setting up for a photo especially Aiden likes to jump in a get silly.It is a good way to test the lighting and sometimes I managed to get a 'keeper' such as this one from a few weeks back.
16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Christmas family photo 2015 16. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the finShareIt is almost Christmas and I've just completed our annual family Christmas photo and this is the final version.It was an interesting process getting to this photo this year. Last year we did a photo in the kitchen of us baking a cake, but this years photo has so many more elements to it.The idea came from a combination of Kim and my ideas. Kim wanted to do a photo of the boys through a crystal ball. I actually bought the crystal ball right after Christmas last year with this year in mind.We did a test in front of the tree in early December which was reasonably okay, but Kim didn't like the feel to it. She wanted more snow (pretty ambitious on a summers day here in Sydney Australia).My idea for our family photo was based on me wanting to do a story of us as a family out in a snow storm 'Looking for Santa'. I had purchased a bag of artificial snow and a Christmas cape a few months back and we had some lanterns downstairs so I pretty much had all the components in place for the shoot.I knew I had to do it as a composite with the boys as there was no way that I would be able to get the photo with all four of us at once. We did the photo over a couple of days, on the first evening (after the kids had gone to bed) I took the one of Kim and myself holding the lantern. Once I had this photo I could show it to Aiden and Lucas so that they knew what we needed them to do (Lucas just had to copy Aiden).I had Gaffa taped markers on the floor so everyone would know where they were supposed to stand. Inside the lantern I had hidden a speedlight gelled with CTO to make it look light the lantern was lit. We are actually lit by a large Einstein strobe also with CTO, grid and barn doors to control the spill of the light. At the back left and right were another two speedlights providing a bit of rim light to emulate moon light.Because of the first 'failed' attempt of the crystal ball I got the idea to extend my 'Looking for Santa' photo into Santa's shed where he would have a crystal ball where he could look at us looking for him.This would require three components - The crystal ball, the lights from the Christmas tree to create atmosphere and then Santa himself. I created Santa by hanging a hat on a chair which was easy to light and then I had another light which I used to balance the ambient with the lights from the tree.The final photo all combined looks like the following, but in the end we decided to just use the tighter crop in the first and final photo.
1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Graduation and Christmas Concert 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'ShareIt was time again for the annual Christmas concert with Aiden and Lucas' daycare.Aiden is starting 'big' school after Christmas, so this was also his graduation.Kim and Aiden had both practiced some dancing and songs for the concert and were both dressed up, Aiden as a doctor and Lucas as a pumpkin.Although Aiden was very excited leading up to the concert and was telling everyone how he was going to sing and dance, he absolutely broke down once we got there overwhelmed by all the people and the noise.It was heartbreaking to see him like that on an evening where he should be enjoying himself. He was crying and didn't want to get on the stage. Eventually we managed to get him up and he did try and participate.Lucas on the other hand had a great time, unfortunately I didn't get a lot of photos of that because I had to try and comfort Aiden.After the show Santa turned up wit presents for the kids and he was a lot happier again.After that the graduates had their photos taken and had cake.
1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments 7th Anniversary 1. December 2015 12:12 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still lovShareThis month Kim and I had our anniversary.I cant believe we have been married for 7 years...still love her to bits.
29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin 0 Comments Ballet - Sleeping Beauty 29. November 2015 22:11 by Admin | 0 Comments TweetSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the AustShareSaturday Kim and I went to the Sydney Opera house to watch the Sleeping Beauty performed by the Australian Ballet.It was one of the better ballets we have seen. The story was great and the dancing (lots of it) was of a really high quality.The even managed to weave in some of the Red riding hood story, Puss in boots, Cinderella and other stories.It was beautiful to watch.
25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Velvet - 2015 25. October 2015 09:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circuShareLast night Kim and I went to the show Velvet at the Sydney Opera House.It was a combination of circus, burlesque and boogie nights (70's music) in one show.The show had great music with Marcia Hines and Brendan Maclean and the performers were great. I think everyones favourite was the guy with the hula hoops.
1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Some more baby photos 1. October 2015 19:10 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.ShareI don't know for sure which ones are Claus and which ones are Rene.
30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Claus as a tennis player 30. September 2015 18:09 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have ShareThis post is mostly about Claus when he was at his top as one of Denmarks top tennis players.I have kept scans of all the newspaper clippings from when he was winning a lot of tournaments.In the mid 90's he started to get pretty sick and although he still tried to play tennis it was never at the same level again. Eventually he more or less gave up. His illness took to great a hold of him. These are some of the 'darkest' photos I have of him while he was struggling with his schizophrenia and were taken shortly before I moved to Australia.He lost contact with most of his friends and was very dependent on my mum and dad as well as other support programs in place.I prefer to remember him as he was before he passed away. This poem reminds me of him.The morning after I killed myself, I woke up. I made myself breakfast in bed. I added salt and pepper to my eggs and used my toast for a cheese and bacon sandwich. I squeezed a grapefruit into a juice glass. I scraped the ashes from the frying pan and rinsed the butter off the counter. I washed the dishes and folded the towels. The morning after I killed myself, I fell in love. Not with the boy down the street or the middle school principal. Not with the everyday jogger or the grocer who always left the avocados out of the bag. I fell in love with my mother and the way she sat on the floor of my room holding each rock from my collection in her palms until they grew dark with sweat. I fell in love with my father down at the river as he placed my note into a bottle and sent it into the current. With my brother who once believed in unicorns but who now sat in his desk at school trying desperately to believe I still existed. The morning after I killed myself, I walked the dog. I watched the way her tail twitched when a bird flew by or how her pace quickened at the sight of a cat. I saw the empty space in her eyes when she reached a stick and turned around to greet me so we could play catch but saw nothing but sky in my place. I stood by as strangers stroked her muzzle and she wilted beneath their touch like she did once for mine. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to the neighbors’ yard where I left my footprints in concrete as a two year old and examined how they were already fading. I picked a few daylilies and pulled a few weeds and watched the elderly woman through her window as she read the paper with the news of my death. I saw her husband spit tobacco into the kitchen sink and bring her her daily medication. The morning after I killed myself, I watched the sun come up. Each orange tree opened like a hand and the kid down the street pointed out a single red cloud to his mother. The morning after I killed myself, I went back to that body in the morgue and tried to talk some sense into her. I told her about the avocados and the stepping stones, the river and her parents. I told her about the sunsets and the dog and the beach. The morning after I killed myself, I tried to unkill myself, but couldn’t finish what I started. —Meggie Royer
26. August 2018 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Camping - Wombeyan Caves 26. August 2018 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetWe made another camping trip. This time to Wombeyan caves with one of Kims colleagues.It was just beShareWe made another camping trip. This time to Wombeyan caves with one of Kims colleagues.It was just before winter set in, so the nights were cold and it was nice sitting around the fire at night.There are a lot of limestone caves in the area that are worth visiting. We did this one which was self guided.I tried to teach the boys how to shoot with a bow - kept them busy for a while.We also rigged up a badminton net for both adults and kids to play.But mostly it was the fire that the boys had fun with.We also did a really long 8km walk - almost lost the track at one point.
26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments My dad's 75th birthday 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis year it was my dad's 75 birthday. I traveled back for the party.The party was at a little hotelShareThis year it was my dad's 75 birthday. I traveled back for the party.The party was at a little hotel (in danish called a 'Kro') at Soroe.While there I also got to see the new house they are living in.
26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Thailand - Ayutthaya 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAyutthaya is the old capital of Thailand. It is a couple of hour north of Bangkok, and the easiest wShareAyutthaya is the old capital of Thailand. It is a couple of hour north of Bangkok, and the easiest way to get there (by far) is by Train (we learned this the hard way).The capital was only moved 250 years ago after it was ransacked by the Burmese, but now most of what used to be some extraordinary buildings are now mostly rubble.It is a large area with lots of temples, so it is worthwhile having plenty of time and not rush it. We just visited three of the main sites, and that was plenty with the kids around.Some of the highlights are the big lying down Buddha.People still use this as a place of worship.And apparently it is good luck if you can make a coin stick on the buddhas feed (without resorting to chewing gum).At one of the temples there is also the head of Buddha stuck in the roots of the tree.And as usual it is worthwhile keeping a look out for other moments involving people.
26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Thailand - Ayutthaya Train 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetWe took the train back to Bangkok after visiting Ayutthaya on 2nd class tickets.There is not much diShareWe took the train back to Bangkok after visiting Ayutthaya on 2nd class tickets.There is not much difference between the classes except extra bolstering on the seats. We however found a more open carriage where the kids could better play, draw and read books during the ride. There was also a bit more life here. I went for a couple of walks through the train and found a lot of interesting sights.The carriages were open between the carriages, so people used these areas to sit sown and get some fresh air or a smoke.There was also a section that was reserved for monks, where I got permission to take this shot.The mail/cargo carriage was more open with this man sitting keeping an eye on things.As we approached Bangkok the man from the little kitchen chased people away from a part of our carriage as this was his place to sleep.
26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Blue Mountains 26. August 2018 15:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis winter we went to the Blue mountains with a group of friends. We hired a house at Leura and speShareThis winter we went to the Blue mountains with a group of friends. We hired a house at Leura and spend the days going for walks.This is from the Grans Canyon walk.And some from the other walks. Perfect Moments Photography | A Rene Pallesen Journal Blog Portfolio Packages Contact About Home 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Birthday 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthdShareI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthday party with all the kids (and mum and dad) dressed up as super heroes.We also had a family dinner where we celebrated both his, Kayla's and Adams (his cousins) birthdays. 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Morning of Frost 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we haShareAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we have also had some cold mornings.One morning the car had frost on it and it was only 5 degrees outside (most winter mornings it is 8-10 degrees with 18-22 degree daytime temps). 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden graduating to Turtle 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the ShareLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the swim class for a couple of years now and never graduated. He would swim fine with me, but would cry and be scared with the swim teacher.After our trip to Thailand in June he gained a lot of confidence and was very happy to swim by himself, but the swim teacher was too careful so he was unable to show what a good swimmer he really is. So, last weekend I asked the swim teacher to let him swim with the result that she by the end of the lesson graduated him and moved him to the next class.He was so proud (and so was his dad). 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Coastal walk with the boys 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee toShareIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee to Clovelly on a beautiful winters day.The water in the little bays were calm and clear.Half way we sat down and had a snack.Kim braved it with the aerial yoga.And the boys were being themselves...best mates.They loved being outside and they managed to walk the whole way (bribed by ice cream) even though Lucas on the last stretch was asking to be picked up. 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Steam train day 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old ShareThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old steam trains.Here we learned that steam trains in NSW were running up until 1973 which means that we were born in the era of steam trains...makes me feel really old.We went for a ride on one of the old steam trains (I think I was more excited than the kids).As usual Aiden and Lucas were monkeying around being best mates. This is a bus on rails.This is an instruction carriage used to teach how to operate the brakes on a steam train. 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Phuket - Kims Birthday 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetOn the day we were flying out it was Kims birthday.I had arranged a cake for her in the morning ordeShare
21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden Birthday 21. August 2015 08:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthdShareI realised that I hadn't posted anything from Aidens birthday.On the weekend we had a bowling birthday party with all the kids (and mum and dad) dressed up as super heroes.We also had a family dinner where we celebrated both his, Kayla's and Adams (his cousins) birthdays.
21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Morning of Frost 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we haShareAlthough we have had a beautiful winter with lots of sunny days and mild daytime temperatures, we have also had some cold mornings.One morning the car had frost on it and it was only 5 degrees outside (most winter mornings it is 8-10 degrees with 18-22 degree daytime temps).
21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Aiden graduating to Turtle 21. August 2015 07:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the ShareLast weekend Aiden graduated in his swim class from being a Crab to being a turtle.He's been in the swim class for a couple of years now and never graduated. He would swim fine with me, but would cry and be scared with the swim teacher.After our trip to Thailand in June he gained a lot of confidence and was very happy to swim by himself, but the swim teacher was too careful so he was unable to show what a good swimmer he really is. So, last weekend I asked the swim teacher to let him swim with the result that she by the end of the lesson graduated him and moved him to the next class.He was so proud (and so was his dad).
18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Coastal walk with the boys 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee toShareIn the spirit of trying to keep the boys active Kim and I took them of a coastal walk from Coogee to Clovelly on a beautiful winters day.The water in the little bays were calm and clear.Half way we sat down and had a snack.Kim braved it with the aerial yoga.And the boys were being themselves...best mates.They loved being outside and they managed to walk the whole way (bribed by ice cream) even though Lucas on the last stretch was asking to be picked up.
18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Steam train day 18. August 2015 16:08 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old ShareThis Sunday we took the boys to Thirlmere trainworks. This is a large train museum with lots of old steam trains.Here we learned that steam trains in NSW were running up until 1973 which means that we were born in the era of steam trains...makes me feel really old.We went for a ride on one of the old steam trains (I think I was more excited than the kids).As usual Aiden and Lucas were monkeying around being best mates. This is a bus on rails.This is an instruction carriage used to teach how to operate the brakes on a steam train.
10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen 0 Comments Phuket - Kims Birthday 10. July 2015 09:07 by Rene Pallesen | 0 Comments TweetOn the day we were flying out it was Kims birthday.I had arranged a cake for her in the morning ordeShare