Bedstemor's 85 års fødselsdag
( 13 - 20 Nov 2004 ) |
Oversættelse Freddy Pallesen
© 2004 |
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Det gamle Ægyptens historier og legender
har længe markeret sig gennem film som "Kleopatra",
"Mumien" og begejstret os kvinder med Omar Sharifs optræden
i "Lawrence of Arabia" og "Doctor Zhivago og senere i
tegnefilm som "The Prince of Egypt". Der er en vis mystik
omkring mellemøsten skildret for os i en meget ung alder, når
vi hørte godnathistorier som "Ali Baba og de 40 røvere"
eller "Sinbad Søfareren" - de fleste af os har en drøm
om at se pyramiderne.
Jeg var meget heldig at få muligheden
for 20 år siden sammen med mine forældre at komme til Ægypten,
men som 10 årig er der ikke så meget et barn kan huske.
Men dette år samles Familien Pallesen igen engang for "Matriarkens"
85 års fødselsdag. Det er tradition for familien at samles
og rejse til et eksotisk land - tidligere har det været Tunesien,
Marokko, Tyrkiet og Gambia - og nu for Bedstemors ønske om at
se Ægyptens pyramider, som hendes mand så for 50 år
siden.
Bedstemors tre børn, seks børnebørn
(Nikolai kunne ikke komme med), fire oldebørn og respektive ægtefæller,
alle tog sammen til det magiske Ægypten. Det er efterår
med varme dage og kølige nætter - en kontrast til den kommende
vinter i Danmark.
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Lørdag 13. November 2004
Afrejse til Ægypten
Vores familie måtte af sted kl. 3.30
for at nå flyet kl. 6.55; 4½ time senere ankom vi til Cairo
lufthavn. Jeg har en svag hukommelse om en meget varm lufthavn med komplet
kaos, med mennesker, der skubber for at få deres kufferter igennem,
råbende gennem en masse larm. Nu fandt vi en næsten ren
og ikke tætpakket lufthavn.Vi mødte AP-Travels repræsentant,
som tog os til Hotel Pyramissa, hvor vi tilsyneladende blev glemt i
Pianobaren, til en af os fik den lyse ide, at bede om vores værelsesnøgler.
Vores familie deltes om en toværelses
suite med et stort fællesrum. Vores første eftermiddag
blev brugt til en spadseretur rundt i kvarteret for evt. at finde et
sted for familien at spise. Vores hotel lå på den anden
side af floden i forhold til centrum, så der var ikke meget at
se på sammen med, at mange butikker var lukket p.g.a. Ramadanen,
den Islamiske fasteperiode fra daggry til solnedgang. Søndag
var sidste dag i Ramadanen, så mange var i gang med at forberede
den sidste faste.
Sluttelig spiste familien til aften i hotellets
"Orientel" restaurant i Ægyptisk stil. Vi regnede med
at få ordentlig Ægyptisk mad, men blev skuffede over at
få lunkent mad. Risen var meget tør, lammekødet
var meget småt og maden var en blandet fornøjelse. Til
vores overraskelse, efter vores kommentarer, fik vi serveret ekstra
tallerkner med lokal Ægyptisk frugt så som friske dadler
og duava. Til vores morskab smagte alle Ægyptiske vine ens, uanset
mærke. Der var masser af Ægyptisk øl og selvfølgelig
levede danskerne op til deres drikkeevner og Bedstemor gav maden til
alle.
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Søndag 14. november 2004
Første nat sov vi ikke så
godt - at sove i en fremmed seng kombineret med koranbøn fra
en nærliggende moske gav os ikke ligefrem en fredfyldt søvn.
Imidlertid var vi alle tidlig oppe for at mødes i Bedstemors
værelse for at overraske hende med danske fødselsdagssange
til flimmer med danske flag og små gaver. Denne familie overrasker
fødselaren og alle synger unisont denne meget søde fødselsdagssang.
Citadellet Muhammad Ali Moskeen
 Vores
første besøg gjaldt Citadellet. Det er byens fort og husede
engang den kongelige familie og skønt det meste af komplekset
er åben for besøgende, besidder militæret stadig
en del, som er lukket område. Det tager en halv dag at komme gennem
hele Citadellet, hvilket vi ikke havde mulighed for. I stedet tilbragte
vi vores tid i Muhammed Ali moskeen.
<== Der er en fantastisk panorama over
byen fra den Vestlige terrasse - fantastisk at Cairo ikke et bygget
af ens mudderfarvede stenbygninger. Det mest bemærkelsesværdige
ved Cairo er imidlertid mangelen på farver og farverne stemmer
overens med ørkenens farver.
 Vores
guide Adam/Mohammed gav os en ringe indsigt i funktionen eller historien
af Citadellet, og i stedet pladserede gruppen i hjørnet i hjørnet
af Muhammed Ali moskeen som en gruppe skolebørn, og gav en lektion
om Islamisk lov og sædvane.
Da René vovede sig til at spørge
om mere om Citadellet, blev han skældt ud for at afbryde og fik
besked på at lytte. Vi fik aldrig muligheden for at finde 7-tallet
Napoleons tropper hade malet over port for at undgå de uvante
arabiske navne, eller det halvrunde tårn, da vores guide simpelthen
ikke vidste, hvor de var.
I den tid havde jeg muligheden for at spadsere
lidt for mig selv og gå i moskeens skønne alabaster arkader.
Den himmelhvælvede centrale bederum var et glimmer af hundrede
af lys, der hang i koncentriske cirkler. På loftet var der arabiske
inskriptioner i guld. Kvinder skulle være anstændig klædt
og kunne ikke bære ærmeløse trøjer eller korte
shorts eller skørter. I et hjørne af rummet lå sarkofaget
med Muhhamed Ali - grundlægger af moskeen og Albanisk handelsmand,
grundlægger af dynastiet, som herskede til revolutionen i 1952.
Cairo Ægyptisk Museet
Jeg
huske turen rundt i dette museum, hvor jeg kiggede ind i smudsige glas
montre og stirrede på de rynkede ansigter af nogle engang kendte
faroer som Ramses II og undrede mig over, om disse gamle Ægyptere
var giganter i deres store kister.
20
år senere var det næsten umuligt at skubbe sig gennem mængderne
af turister - kun nyttigt fordi deres guider gav flere informationer
end vores. Med kun to timer var det umulig at se hele museet og slet
ikke de kongelige mumier.
Museet
fejrede sit hundred år med en speciel udstilling omkring TutAnkhAmun
- det mest berømte fund. Med rejseguiden i hånden "aaaede"
og "åååede" vi over guldskattene fundet
i hans grav - en guldtrone med den berømte scene med TutAnkhAmons
dronning, der tilbeder ham, kister af ibenholt og elfenben, jagtskjolde
beklædt med gepardskin, buer og pile, alabaster krukker med kong
Tuts mummificerede organer, guld sarkofager - da Howard Carter havde
fundet sådanne skatte for en lille kendt drenge-konge, forestil
jer, hvad Ramses II´s grav har indeholdt. Kong Tuts inderste kiste
af rent guld og og den berømte maske af guld, som alle gerne
vil se, er trykt i mange Ægyptiske billedmaterialer.
Museet
er blevet en ny pengemaskine for Ægypterne med yderligere en entre
for at se de kongelige mumier. Vi måtte være tilfreds med
at se dyremumierne - katte, hunde, fugle, geder, Nile Perch (ja, også
fisk!) og mest fantastisk var en 7 meter krokodillemumie.
Udstillingerne
var på øverste etage opsat efter emne og på underste
etage i kronologisk orden uret rundt fra det Gamle Kongerige, til det
midterste og sluttende med de Nye og Sidste Kongedømmer. Der
var værelser fyldt med kæmpe sarkofager (kister), som hver
ville veje en tons, et værelse fyldt med miniaturer, der viste
daglig liv i Ægypten, et værelse fuld af falmede gamle papyrusskrifter
og værelser fulde af brokker og stykker fra ruiner, statuer, palads
gulve - et sted, man kan tilbringe dage med en ordentlig rejse guide.
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Khan Al-Khalili
 Efter
et stop på en Ægyptisk parfumefabrik og en frokostpause,
kom vi til Khan Al-Khalili, det ældste basar i Ægypten,
som går tilbage til 1300-tallet. Gamle tiders købere besøgte
Khanen for at kigge på varerne bragt dertil af handelskaravanerne.
Vi finder ikke længere slaver, silke, juveler eller diamanter,
men træ guitarer, skønne klude tæpper, klæder,
t-shirts, papyrustryk, vandpiber, bunker af tøj, aromaen af krydderier
breder sig og boder med stakke af rødt, guld og blå pulver
og sække med frø og bønner. Kobbersmede udhamrer
fade, terriner, kaffekander og enorme halvmåneformede toppe til
minareter. Det er et ritual i basarer at tinge om priserne, lokale såvel
som gæster - almindeligvis til en tiendedel af den budte pris
- har du betalt en tredjedel, har du betalt for meget. Vi havde kun
en time til vores rådighed, men mange af boderne var lukkede for
siesta og for ramadanen. Ulla og jeg pegede på nogle sække
af mangefarvede krydderier. Han ville have 50£ (50 kr.), men efter
jeg sagde "da ketir awi" (det koster for meget) og gik, fulgte
sælgeren efter os en kilometer mens han reducerede prisen fra
40£ til 30£, 25£, 20£, og efter vi i spøg
råbte 10£, tilbød han 15£, 10£ og endelig
5£ før han opgav os. Efter megen tingen lykkedes det os
få to udsmykkede parfumeglas flasker for 20£ (20 kr.).
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Bedstemor's fødselsdagfest
 Irene
og Ole havde sørget for et privat værelse til Bedstemors
fødselsdagsfest. Et enkelt langt bord i et værelse i Ægyptisk
stil. Sølv fade i to rækker midt på bordet med ild
under holdt maden varm.
Vi fik kommen-panneret stegt fisk, kyllinge
filleter på Ægyptisk stil, kanel-krydret ravioli, ris, kartoffelmos
og steg i pebbersauce, "sang" og brød med Ægyptisk
vin og øl til Bedstemor.
Mens børnene legede i et hjørne,
var der meget snak bordet rundt, og aftenen sluttede med chokolade og
frugt kage pyntet med "Happy Pirthday" (det er ikke en fejl)
og vi morede os over os over overfloden af Ægyptiske kager - bagværk,
semulje tærte, rosenvands krydrede tærter og tærter,
der smagte af flydende honning… Ulla ville gerne have resten af
desserten med sig (undtagen den rosenvands krydrede - det var morsomt
at se hendes udtryk - rosenvand dufter næsten som parfume). Tjenerne
var hele tiden meget opmærksomme, passerede hver andet minut for
at opvarte os.
Det bedste var, at Bedstemor blev som to
årig, da hun skulle puste lysene på kagerne ud. Som danskerne
ville sige, "det var meget hyggeligt!"
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Mandag 15. november 2004 (start 7:30)
Fra de grå bygninger og gader I Cairo
kørte vi 24 km mod sydøst til Saqqara, skiftende fra ensartet
brun til frodige grøne marker med grøntsager og hundrede
af dadelpalmer. Det var som en oase, hvor et fint slør gav en
uvirkelig følelse af de frodige områder i det gamle Ægypten.
Kvinder i hellange sorte "abeeyas" fordelt i markerne, den
gamle mand, der vandrede omkring - en stor kontrast til mylderet i Cairos
centrum.
Saqqara's Trin Pyramide
Grundlagt som et nekropolis (begravelses
by) for det gamle Kongedømme og et af de rigeste arkæologiske
områder i Ægypten.
Trin pyramiden er mindre end halv så
høj, som den største pyramide ved Giza, men dette monument
var en forløber for de glatte pyramider. Tidligere var gravene
bygget af soltørrede muddersten, rektangulære byggesten,
der dækkede gravstedet. Men arkitekten Imhotep havde  den
lyse ide at bygge med sten og bygge den trinagtige struktur fen gange
ovenpå hinanden, og skabte den første pyramide.
Vi kom ind gennem den store sydlige gård
- på størelse med en fodboldbane - gennem en koridor af
40 søjler inspireret af bundter af bundne rør. Mens Adam
holdt endnu en af sine taler, blev jeg antastet af en klæde og
turbanklædt Ægypter, som førte mig op til toppen,
hvor jeg fik et godt skud af de fantastiske søjlers top, før
jeg blev skældt ud af Adam og tigget for "baksheesh".
Jeg var taknemmelig for at blive reddet fra Ægypteren, som ikke
ville lade mig gå uden baksheesh, af et par Italienere. Da jeg
kom ud fra koridoren blev jeg imidlertid blændet af det hvide
sand og den enorme pyramide alene omgivet af sten fra andre ruiner og
en meget mindre trekantet høj af sten i baggrunden. Selv om morgenen
var køkig, så varmede solen os, mens vi vandrede nord omkring
pyramiden.
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Memphis
 Engang
hovedstaden i det gamle Ægypten, uudgravet på grund af landsbyen,
bygget over den gamle by, og det hævede grundvandsspejl på
grund at Asuan-dæmningen. Der er en lille park med nogle få
fund, brokker og stykker, men den mest spændende ting at se er
en kolos af Ramses II, der ligger på ryggen og mangler den nederste
del af benene. Kolossen ville have været 5 etager høj,
hvis den havde været hel. Midt i parken ligger den største
alabaststatue, der er fundet - en sphinx på 80 tons - tænk
hvilke skatte, der kunne have været fundet, hvis Memphis kunne
udgraves, især da denne gamle by lå på halvvejen mellem
Øvre og Nedre Ægypten.
Vores sidste stop før frokost var
ved en papyrus butik - endnu et sted med kommission til Adam. Bedstemor
købte en papyrus med det Ægyptiske alfabet i heroglypher.
Nogle af papyrusbillederne kostede 3500£ (3500 kr). Til frokost
fik vi et udmærket Ægyptisk måltid ude midt i ingenting.
Vi fik glimrende mezza (ægyptiske tapas) af baba ghanoush (ristet
aubergine dip), tzatziki (agurke dip), hummus (kikærte dip), fuul
(bønner) serveret med friskbagte pitabrød, varme vinblade
ruller, lamme kofta og ny grillet kylling med timian. Det var et måltid
for konger og det bedste Ægyptiske måltid, vi fik på
hele turen.
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Pyramider af Giza
 Fra
luften ligger ørkenen og pyramiderne lige op til byen, 16 km
fra Cairo.
Jeg husker svagt at blive puklet op ad
en overraskende varm skakt, oplyst af en enkelt lyspære, og komme
ind i et meget køligt, mørk rum, hvor der stod en enkel
stensarkofag; rummet var tomt, men med tilfældige firkantede huller
i væggen til mad til livet hinsides.
Jeg var inde i Dronningerummet i den største
pyramide og nu 20 år senere kan kun de første 300 gæster
daglig komme ind i disse pyramider - for en anseelig entre. |
Den største af de tre, Kheops pyramide, er 146 meter høj,
920 meter i omkreds og består af 2,3 millioner stenblokke! Hver
blok var mindst en meter høj, så man kan forestille sig
hvor massive disse pyramider var.
Den næststørste Khefrens (Kheops søn) pyramide har
stadig noget af de glatte skinnende kalkstens dækning, som engang
dækkede alle pyramiderne.==>
Den massive solbåd, som engang bragte
faraos krop fra Memphis til Giza og de tre mindre Dronninge pyramider
står ved foden af den massive Kheops pyramide. Vi havde ikke mulighed
for at komme ind i gravkammeret denne gang, men jeg føler mig
privilegeret over at jeg var derinde, og stadig har nogle minder fra
begivenheden.
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Sphinxen
 Pyramiderne
rejser sig i baggrunden, mens den sider stille på det varme sand
under den bagende sol i 4000 år. Napoleons tropper brugte den
som målskive, så næsen og faraos skæg er for
længst faldet af og findes i British museum. Grækerne kaldte
den "Sphinx", som var basseret på en mærkelig
skikkelse med hovedet af et menneske og kroppen af en løve, som
ville stoppe enhver rejsende langs vejen med en gåde - hvis gåden
ikke blev gættet, blev man måltid for Sphinxen. Trængslen
af skarerne omringede Sphinxen og vi kunne kun bevæge os i gåsegang.
Gennem tiden ser det ud til, at turisterne må se Sphinxen på
længere og længere afstand. For 50 år siden kunne
Bedstefar røre ved Sphinxen og også klatre op på
toppen af pyramiden; for 20 år siden var Sphinxen hegnet inde
med et lille trådhegn, men jeg kunne stå tæt ved den;
nu ligger den i et stort hul, hvor besøgende kun kan se den tæt
på gennem zoomen på deres kameraer. 4 tusind år senere
bjergtager den stadig os alle.
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Tirsdag 16. november 2004 (start 2:30)
Ja, du læste rigtig - vi ventede
alle I receptionen kl. 2.30. I aftes diskede Bedstemors børnebørn
op med Spansk-Ægyptisk-Italiensk middag til hele familien. Dette
fulgtes op af en ![]()
17. September 2008 02:42
by Rene Pallesen
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We have bought a house now. We have signed the contract from our part and paid the deposit and our solicitor has received the signed contract from the Vendor. The property has now finally been pulled off the market by the real estate agent (that idiot) and we are looking at moving into the new place in mid/late October (before 24th October). Now we just need to go through all the mortgage application documents which if anything like last time I applied for a home load will be a lot of bureaucracy filling out triplicates, getting copies certified by rocket scientists (whom you have known for at least 40 years and who have worked in the industry since the Apollo program).
This will be perfect as it means that Kim and I will have something to live in after the wedding (The current apartment is not really suitable and I would like Kim to feel like it is her home as well).The place is in Botany in the Eastern Suburbs and it is very close to Kim's family (about a 200 meter walk to one of her sisters and 5 minutes drive from her dad). And more importantly it is reasonably close to the city (10km) and away from the flight path of the airport. We don't have much furniture so the place will be a bit empty in the beginning until we get the essentials. Kims sister has already donated us a dining table but we need to get items such as a bed and a washing machine immediately and then also items such as a sofa, entertainment unit etc.
It is a terrace house and has got the potential to do some really nice things to it. It is spacious on the inside and has got a small backyard that doesn't require too much maintenance. There is a bit of painting and maintenance that needs to be done immediately to the outdoor areas but nothing that cannot be managed. I am also sure that Kim would like have some painting done internally. My dad will arrive just after we have moved in so I am sure he won't get bored while here.
This Torrens title oversized terrace offers an ease of living combined
with great design features spread over three very generous levels. Be
immediately impressed by the flawless presentation and the impeccable
renovation of this striking tri-level terrace. Enjoying an elevated
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A handy convenient setting with ample street parking. Generous living with separate formal and casual areas. Tranquil north facing backyard and outdoor entertaining. Modern kitchen with breakfast bar stainless steel appliances. Upstairs bedrooms with built-ins, two with private balconies. Well appointed for care free modern living. Intelligently designed to maximise space and light. Dressed in fresh contemporary tones and polished floors
Automatic garage for two cars with internal access. Easy walk to local parks, schools, shops and transport
If you read the score further down in this blog, then you will know that the score now is 4 out of 5...just the wedding to complete to get 5 big events done within the same 6 months timeframe.
26. August 2008 02:03
by Rene Pallesen
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This weekend we went climbing up at Berowra (northern part of Sydney). It has been raining a lot and been very cold lately, but this day was sunny and very pleasant so no need for the down jacket and the gloved that I had brought with me.
Andy had just bought a new HD video camera and was keen to try it out and he got some really good footage og me climbing as well as Phil falling.
Click here to see video
I actually had a really bad day climbing. I think work is stressing me out at the moment and one one of the first few climbs I freaked out when I got to a section with only slopers as hand holds (if you see the video then it was at the section where Phil shouts "YES!"). I was pretty upset when it happened and I was unable to get back into the right headspace.
The rest of the afternoon I was doing top ropes but had blown my strength and self esteem.
7. August 2008 07:10
by Rene Pallesen
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Last week I was in Brisbane for some SharePoint training for the company. It was four days of intensive training but it was worth it and it was nice going up north where it is a bit warmer than here in Sydney at the moment. I flew up there Tuesday morning leaving home at 5am to catch a 6am flight. It was the morning after my Birthday so Kim and I decided to just have a quiet evening and then celebrate some other time (Kim is going to take me to a nice restaurant).  I found a couple of good restaurants in Brisbane and one night I had Moreton Bay Bugs (Look like a giant cockroach). I also went for a walk to Kangaroo Point which is a big climbing area along the river in Brisbane. It is all lit up and actually looks like good climbing. I was surprised to find people climbing at night and also surprised to find that almost everyone was toproping rather than lead climbing (Everything is nicely bolted so there really is no excuse).
4. August 2008 05:00
by Rene Pallesen
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This year we again went skiing on the weekend closest to my birthday. We tried to get the same house as we did last year, but unfortunately it was already booked so we had to settle for an apartment. This did mean that we only had two bedrooms instead of three so it was only Soeren and Nui (and Freja) and Kim and I staying there.
Kims ex-colleague Mark had to settle with staying at a caravan park.
The first day Soeren and I drove up to Perisher in my new car (first long trip in it) while the girls did their own thing. When we got back late afternoon after a whole day of skiing they had organised all the ingredients for a nice BBQ and marinated all the meat…yummy. Mark came over for dinner with Daniel and we had a nice evening with a couple of bottles of wine.
Next morning we got a late start (it took the other guys a bit of time to get ready) and we went to hire some additional gear for the girls to go skiing as well. This time we went to Thredbo which is much better in terms of variation of the runs and also the length. The longest run there is 3.7 kilometers.
The girls took an instructor class (I think it is better if Kim gets an instructor by herself next time as she will get more attention).  It was a fairly short skiing day as we finished at three and then went on our way to the 5+ hour drive back to Sydney. Next year I think I'll take a lesson as well...I am getting pretty good at it now, but just need a few pointers to get even better especially at black runs and moguls.
21. July 2008 07:45
by Rene Pallesen
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About two months ago a crashed and wrote off my old car...pretty silly but what can you do. Fortunately it was old and was already starting to cause problems and cost me a lot in repairs. Kim had already hinting that maybe it was time to get a new car and that the car was trying to tell me something. The car was 11 years, the engine was leaking every fluid imaginable and the gearbox was slipping and there was rust developing so the timing to get a new car was pretty good. The insurance paid me a good price for the old car...a lot more than I would have received if I had used it as a tradein to buy a new one. After chasing around the city for a second hand car...amongst which there were some pretty dodgy deals the choice came down to either buy an 6 months old ex-rental or a new one. There was a $4000 difference and by the end of the day the decision came down to us needing that money once we buy a property so I decided to get the ex-rental. It is a nice blueish gray (Aztec Blue) Toyota Corolla. It will have its first test run this weekend when we go down to the snow in it.  Kim and I could probably have gotten by with just one car, but hers is too small to fit golf gear, ski & climbing gear etc. into and the new car is harder for her to drive because of the size...so for now we'll have two cars. The score so far is: Kim new job: Done Rene new job: Done New car: Done Wedding: Pending House: Pending 3 out of 5 aint bad
15. July 2008 12:17
by Rene Pallesen
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Some years back my mum had a stroke while my parents were traveling in Thailand. This left totally paralysed in the left side of her body and she has been bound to a wheelchair ever since. The stroke was most likely caused by heavy smoking and drinking and in general an unhealthy lifestyle. This all happened a few years after my parents retired and were planning to spend most of the winters traveling in warmer countries. They have always been traveling a lot and never liked the winters in Denmark. The realisation after the stroke for my parents was that suddenly those dreams were burst and that my mum would need constant care. My dad negotiated with the council that they would look after her one week a month which left my dad with some time to realise some of his dreams and at leaft do some traveling and at the same time provide some relief from looking after mum. It has been a hard blow to my mum and it is still very hard for her to accept that she will be bound to a wheelchair and dependent on other people for simple tasks such as going to the toilet, washing and getting dressed. My mum some time ago discovered that some of the traveling my dad had done hadn't taken place alone but with an old female school friend (How intimate they were/are I don't know and don't care) but obviously my mum got very hurt and set the ultimatum that either he stops seeing her or she moves out. My dad said that he didn't want to stop seeing her and that he would still keep looking after my mum except for that one week every month. It has now come to the point where my mum has found an apartment in a care facility and it going to move there this month. I am sure that it hurts a lot for her to move out. Another blow has been that I am getting married in a few months time and that it is not possible for her to attend my wedding but that my dad is. It will be really hard for her on the day itself and I wish there was something I could do to make it easier for her or somehow allow her to attend. So how do I feel about this? I am disappointed, angry and understanding at the same time. I am angry at my mum because she insisted smoking and drinking the way she did and tat this caused a stroke. I am angry at my dad that he's found someone else and that is causing my mum to move out...she is the one totally loosing out. I am disappointed that their marriage and thereby also my family is breaking up. I also understand why my dad has been longing for some company on different level and at the same time I also understand why my mum is so hurt about it. I am hurt because I know that my mum needs some support but that I am so far away but at the same time my life is here and I am about to get married here.I just hope that she understands that my happiness is dependent on me staying here. Especially since the stupid danish immigration laws will prevent me from moving back to Denmark with my future wife. I am also hurt because my parents during the last decade has been through so much hardship first with my brother, then with the stroke and now with all this. This is certainly a year of change...
13. July 2008 09:51
by Rene Pallesen
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A new climbing area in Sydney suddenly popped up on our radar. A new area up in the Mt Ku-Ring Gai national park near Berowra. And and May went there while I was in Hunter Valley and they said it was really hard to get to.  I wanted to experience it myself and convinced Andy that we should go there again. Yes, it is a long walk in (40 minutes) and yes it is hard to find the way but it helped that he'd been there before and it also helps that the track has seen a bit of traffic and marked with cairns. The first few climbs the rock was a bit cold so the fingers went a bit numb which adds 2-4 grades to a climb. Later when the rock heated up a bit it was really good climbing. The area is new so rock still breaks here and there so it is important to be careful and safe but it is not as bad as Otherland and Stables where the rock crumbles. During one of the last few climbs we heard some noises in the bushes but couldn't see what it was. Once we finished the climb Andy had a closer look and spotted an Echidna (A large porcupine). I grabbed my camera and went over there and it turned out that there was three Echidnas there trying to hide under a branch.  There are some other cliffs in the area that are being developed so I am sure that we will be spending a fair amount of time there in the future.
13. July 2008 09:40
by Rene Pallesen
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Late June is Kims birthday. We went out for her birthday with a lot of her friends to a restaurant called the Mantra. It was a fun evening with entertainment in the restaurant in the form of belly dancing. Kim also had a go at the sword dance. I thought the belly dancer was pretty good, but Kim having done belly dancing herself said that she'd seen better.
My present to Kim was a trip to the Hunter Valley. I had hired a nice romantic place up there with a Spa, served breakfast on the balcony with a view from the mountains of the whole Hunter Valley. My aim for the weekend was to really spoil her and she loved it. Saturday morning we met up with a couple of Kims friends Linda & Warren do go through the wine districts. As usual we found some really nice surprises and also got confirmed that some of our choices in wine from earlier trips are excellent choices (I can recommend the Silvereye from Misteltoe and the Shiraz from Petersons).
In the evening I took Kim to this really nice restaurant called Mojo's. It is not cheap ($60 for two courses) but the scallops Kim had for entrees were without a doubt the best I've ever had before. They were fresh and just marinated and cooked slightly and still raw inside and really tasty. I had Quail for my entree and for the mains I had a beef ribeye fillet and Kim had the Lamb chops. After two courses we were absolutely stuffed. I saw some of the food other people were eating and it all looked very delicious. After dinner we went back for a nice warm spa bath as it was freezing outside all weekend.
Sunday morning we went to another couple of Vineyards and then drove back to Sydney...a very relaxing and enjoyable weekend.
10. July 2008 05:26
by Rene Pallesen
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After 4 years I decided it was time to change to a new job in a different company. There was several reasons why it was time for a change and it was hard to let go as I have loved working with the company and there are a lot of aspects of the job that I will really miss. The new job I have accepted is with a large consulting firm here in Sydney. They are about 800 people in the branch itself and they are part of one of the large telecommunications and mobile phone networks here in Australia and Asia which has got tens of thousands of employees. So hopefully in the long term some better career opportunities as well as more money in the short term. I have now been in the job for about three weeks and is still trying to decide whether I like it or not there. I am more used to a consultative selling process where you talk to clients and really try and understand their business and then become their trusted advisor in making decisions and guiding them how to improve their business. I was expecting this new consulting company to follow similar approaches as this in my opinion is the best way to secure business. It seems however that this company is following a more opportunistic approach where they respond to tenders and requests from customers. This means that it is in a very competitive area where other business also are responding to the same type of requests from the same customer. It also means that a large part of my function so has has been in preparation for customer demonstrations and writing proposals. I would rather engage with the clients more and understand their business before we jump to demos and proposals. Another thing is that there was no induction process a such. They have an overwhelming amount of processes in place and there is no one who can really explain what applied and when it applies. Anyway so far I am not very impressed...but it is really still too early days to tell.
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